You’ve built a career or business that others long for. You’re successful, ambitious, and driven—but you’ve hit a wall. The strategies that got you here aren’t taking you to the next level. The rules you’ve been playing by feel like you’re suffocating, but breaking free seems impossible.
You’re not here to play small, and you’re not here to settle.
The problem isn’t your work ethic—it’s the rules you’ve been taught to follow.
Society, family, and the patriarchy have conditioned you to operate in ways that keep you stuck. Burnout, frustration, and spinning your wheels aren’t symptoms of failure. They’re signs you’re trying to fit into a system that doesn’t work for you.
You’ve done everything you know how to do and you still feel like you are living the same year over and over.
You’ve had coaching that has taken you as far as you can go. You have been to therapy. You are well resourced but you can’t see to “get there”. This is where you realize that what’s holding you back from where you want to go is your conditioning.
Our Families: Not being able to go further than the level that they have reached because you wouldn’t want to leave them behind.
The Rest of the World: The conditioning for women in our communities often goes a little like this; you are subtly judged for going back to work too early. Or taking time away from your family to take care of your needs when there is a silent expectation that you will be on and available 24/7.
The Patriarchy: Conditioning with the patriarchy often comes to us in money blocks, “what would someone do with that amount of money anyway?”. Or striving to reach the “top” to make sure that the men can make space for us up there when what we would rather be doing is build a whole other organization that aligns with our energy.
With Human Design at our backs, Deconditioning Sessions are designed to take a wide view of all of the things that are holding you back from doing your soul’s work and hitting the levels of success that you know you were born for.
By knowing where your areas of strength and struggle are, we can begin to unravel the conditioning that you have experienced that is standing in the way of making quantum leaps of success.
These sessions are part HD analysis, part coaching, and a space where you can unload the armor that you have been carrying around.
Stuck: You know you’re capable of more, but nothing you try gets you closer to your goals. You have spent hours strategizing how to grow your business but you aren’t getting the results that you want.
Burned Out: You’re pushing harder than ever, but the results don’t match the effort. You have worked harder and know that it’s not the way you are going to cross the next threshold in your business.
Chasing The Next Trend: You’ve followed the formulas, mimicked the strategies, and still feel like you’re on the outside looking in. You “get it” but it’s not working for you.
Living It: Leading your business and life with clarity and ease, aligned with your design. You know how you get to where you are going without questioning if you are “doing it right”.
Playing by Your Own Rules: Making decisions and setting boundaries based on what works for you, not what’s expected of you. We throw the rulebook out the window and we write our own.
Centered: Operating at your full potential, with the confidence to create your success on your own terms. Fast. Slow. It doesn’t matter as long as you are grounded in your work and life.
Your Human Design is a map of how you’re meant to operate. When you live by someone else’s rules, you hit resistance. When you align with your design, you thrive.
As a Human Design Projector, I see what others miss. My work is to get to the root of the issue—the block, belief, or behavior keeping you stuck—and give you the clarity to remove it. You won’t waste time rehashing your past or following outdated advice.
This is about designing your next move based on who you truly are.
These aren’t generic coaching calls or surface-level strategies. This isn’t a therapy session.
This is a deep, transformative process to decondition your mind, align with your design, and clear the blocks keeping you from your next level.
The biggest problem I see with the women that I work with is that they are trying to fit themselves “into the box”. Within a single session they are shifting from trying to play by the rules of others to understanding that they come with a unique design and when they understand how to read it they can apply the rules of the world to who they are.
“Deconditioning with Ellie made me feel more human-that no part of me is bad and that there's a reason for every feeling, decision, etc. So just to lean in to more being me. I have so much clarity and relief!”
- L.D.
“Okay so since our session on Tuesday I feel like I’m unearthing layers of emotions, around who I am. When I am fully myself, I don’t say “yes” or “maybe” to things that don’t bring me joy. And being okay with that disappointing others, for the sake of keeping my vibration high.”
- N.C.
“I think it’s quite cool that you can see this all unfolding and understand it from the outside. I couldn’t have done it without you”
- K.P.
Each call is tailored to your Human Design, identifying exactly where conditioning has taken you off course and guiding you back to alignment.
You’ll gain clarity on how your energy, decision-making, and leadership are uniquely designed to function. You’ll use this insight to stop working against yourself and start working with your strengths.
I bring in my Projector penetrating aura to cut through the conditioning so we can see what is “really” going on and then remove the blocks. You’ll discover and dismantle the beliefs that have kept you playing small. Leave each session with practical shifts you can implement immediately.
This isn’t for everyone. It’s for the woman who knows she’s capable of more, who’s tired of spinning her wheels, and who’s ready to embrace a new way of operating.
Your next level won’t come from following the same rules. It comes from breaking them.
The breakthrough you’ve been waiting for is here.
Pay in full
6 monthly payments of $497
Ellie is a Priestess of the 13 Moon lineage , ceremonialist, and podcast host for the Attune to Your Alchemy podcast.
lHer work consists of leading women who want to reconnect with their sensuality and divine feminine through ceremony and the sacred arts.
She is a Human Design Projector that uses her insight and intuition to coach women through transitional periods in their lives and is passionate about creating opportunities for adding more pleasure into their lives.